“For the Mothers Who Were Chosen: A Soul Letter for Autism Mothers”

There is something that needs to be said gently — especially to the mothers of disabled and autistic children.

You were not given this child by accident.And your child is not here to punish you, test you, or break you.

You were chosen.

Not because you were already strong —but because your soul was ready to awaken into a deeper truth.

Many mothers are told that disability or autism is a sentence.

A tragedy.

A life to grieve.

But from a soul perspective, something very different is happening.

These children come with depth.

With sensitivity.

With a nervous system that cannot survive on surface-level parenting, noise, force, or distraction.

They require presence.

They require listening.

They require truth.

They require you to become more than who you were.

And in that requirement… the mother awakens.

These children respond to connection, not force 🌸

You cannot raise these children by ignoring your intuition.

You cannot raise them by numbing yourself.

You cannot raise them by staying asleep.

They call you into:

• emotional honesty

• embodiment

• patience

• softness

• strength without control

They don’t just need care.

They need conscious presence.

And that presence transforms the mother first.

This is meaning beyond pain 🌱

Yes, this path is hard.

Yes, there is grief.

Yes, there are moments of exhaustion, fear, and loneliness.

Awakening does not erase pain.

It gives it meaning.

Your child is not here to be “fixed.”

Your child is here to initiate you into who you truly are.

Many mothers say:

“I don’t know who I would be without my child.”

That is not weakness.

That is awakening.

A message to the mother reading this 🤍

You are not behind.

You are not broken.

You are not failing.

You are being invited into:

• deeper intuition

• deeper listening

• deeper love

• deeper self-knowledge

Not everyone will understand this path.

Some will awaken later.

Some will never choose to awaken.

That does not make you arrogant.

It makes you ready.

This is soul work, not comparison ✨

This is not about being better than anyone.

It is about becoming more yourself.

Slowly.

Gently.

Without force.

If this resonates with you, you are not alone.

And if it does not yet, it will land when the time is right.

Awakening is not loud.

It is intimate.And it begins within the mother.

With my deepest Love. HELA